Recently, I got this email in my inbox:
I am a 14 year old girl. I currently wear some makeup, but I would like to find some better cosmetics and wear a little more.
Unfortunately, I don't know where to start. I can't go to my mom for help, because she is one of those people that never wears makeup, but when she does it is a very minimal amount of expensive Clinique foundation. I can't get help from my friends either, because their parents buy them very high-end and expensive makeup, which I can't afford.
So I'm looking to you for help. I'm a huge fan of your blog and I think that you might me able to help me. I'm looking for some makeup that I can buy myself. It doesn't need to be super cheap, just affordable. I'm looking to be able to create a natural, everyday look, and be able to get to a full face of makeup for nicer occasions. I would really like a foundation/BB cream/Tinted moisturizer, blush, bronzer, highlight, concealer, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, lipstick/lip butter/lipgloss, and any needed tools. And maybe a few splurge-worthy items that are more expensive.
I have medium brown hair, grey-green eyes, and fair skin with an olive undertone. I also have a square face, hooded (but not Asian) eyes, and cheeks that are very round and look like they have no cheekbone. Near me, I have a Walgreens, Rite-Aid, CVS, and an Ulta. Farther away I have a Sephora. I would prefer to stay at about $75 or less in total, but it would be completely fine to be over that price.
I would really appreciate any products or advice you could give me. I truly am lost when it comes to makeup. I'd really appreciate it though if you could tell me an affordable eyeliner that doesn't smudge. I've had a lot of problems finding one.
Thank you so much. You have no idea how much this would mean to me.
So, I have to say that this challenge really excited me! I have this secret fantasy of helping all the girls in my life with their first makeup. I have no idea why, it just sounds like so much fun!
The author of this email (who asked to not be named, though let's just call her Karen to make it a bit easier), is right in the middle of that difficult period in which she wants to grow up and look older, but doing too much not only freaks out the parents, but it can just look...wrong. It's a really fine line to navigate, and if you go a bit overboard you'll become known as the girl that just tries too hard. That's definitely worse than having a more natural look that just accentuates your positives and makes you look pretty. Luckily Karen seems to realize that!
My ideal look for this age group is pretty minimal. You should wear as little face makeup as possible, often your skin is the envy of all the women around you, so covering it up isn't necessary and just looks too artificial. Keeping the shine down without looking like you are wearing a mask is pretty easy if you have the right products, and just adding a little color to lips and putting the emphasis on your eyes keeps your look age appropriate and pretty.
Here's a look at what my picks would be for Karen. Note that I'm just including prices (I priced things out at my local Target, but you can buy many of these items at drugstores and ULTA), not a total. I offered a few options for products in the pics, and there's more mentioned below.
The only issue I have with the BB Cream is that because it is also your moisturizer, you pretty much need to apply it every where, every day. If Karen needs more flexibility, I would go with a regular lightweight SPF lotion and then use Neutrogena Healthy Skin Enhancer in areas that need a little coverage. This is slightly lighter coverage than the BB Cream, but it would be easier to use only as needed.
2. True Match Concealer: I love how many shades are available in this concealer. Its light consistency means that it not only works under the eye area (though Karen shouldn't really need it there), but it is great over blemishes too.
3. Dream Bouncy Blush: I'm a big fan of cream blush this season, and the glowy/pretty effect you'll get from it is perfect for a teen trying to show off her skin. I would go for pink with Fresh Pink 05 or Pink Plum 40.
4. Clean and Clear Oil Absorbing Sheets: Strangely enough, these are hard to find "official" info on, but they are definitely still for sale at my local CVS and Target. I would avoid powder (again, keep skin looking as fresh as possible). A few minutes after applying BB Cream, Concealer and blush I would blot gently with a regular kleenex. This will remove some of the oils from the products and give a more natural finish. As needed, blot again with these sheets throughout the day. They're blue plastic and won't leave any residue behind, instead they remove your oil and freshen up makeup a bit.
If you find that you really must have a powder to set everything, I'd go with the ELF High Definition Powder, which is a low cost dupe of the Make Up For Ever HD powder.
5. ELF Concealer Brush: I think the best way to cover up a blemish is with a liquid concealer (see #2) and a decent brush. I have 2 that I like, the other costs over $20. Dab a little on the blemish itself, then grab this brush and just brush all over the place. Gone!
6. ELF Complexion Brush: I really prefer the look of cream blush that was applied with a brush. I use a super old Clinique brush that my mom got with a gift with purchase. I can't get another one, I haven't found anything like it. This $3 brush is pretty close. Smile to find the perfect spot to apply it, dab a few times on the apple of your cheeks (don't get too close to your nose, let there be at least 1 1/2 finger widths between the edge of your nose and your blush), and put a little in almost a "tail" going back toward your hair line. Easy!
7. Rimmel Natural Bronzer: Matte, not orange, cheap and you get a lot (and it lasts for hours), definitely my favorite inexpensive bronzer!
8. ELF Studio Angled Blush Brush: It sounded like Karen is interested in doing a little contouring with the bronzer, and this blush is a good size to do that.
9. ELF Shimmering Facial Whip: If there was a lifetime achievement award for inexpensive facial highlighter, this ELF Facial Whip would win it! It's cheap and comes in a lot of shades, but be careful! There's a lot of shimmer in this product. Don't confuse highlighting with good skin, it's really easy to use too much Facial Whip and just look like one big shimmer person. Here's a good post about using ELF Facial Whips to highlight.
2. Maybelline Eye Lash Curler: It does look like a torture device, but learning to use one of these things can make a big difference in how your eyes look! I used the CoverGirl curler for forever, only upgrading in the last year or so. CoverGirl no longer makes it, Maybelline and Revlon both have decent ones. (Don't try to save a few dollars and get the ELF version.)
3. Maybelline Volum' Express The Rocket Mascara: Lots of volume, it holds a curl, no flaking or smudging... very good!
4. ELF Eye Shadow Brush: This is one of the best eye shadow brushes out there. I have a huge collection of much more expensive brushes, but I still own about 6 of these and use them every day!
A note about eye brows!
I purposefully didn't include eye brow products here. I can't tell you how many girls I know that over plucked or plucked their brows strangely as a teenager and now they are stuck. Really and truly, their brows won't grow back and they are stuck pencilling things in, which looks really odd. It is much better to seek professional help with your brows or do the bare minimum on your own now so that you have better eye brows for decades (literally) to come.
If you're going to do anything to your brows, I would pluck only stray hairs that aren't part of the main brow (and are only under or between your brows, nothing on top), don't try to change the shape at all. No one wants to accidentally have tadpole eye brows for life! If your brows are a bit unruly, go for a clear brow gel. My favorite is from Anastasia and is a bit expensive, but you could also use a clear mascara (CoverGirl makes a good one).
I found some great articles about green eye makeup:
Beauty Tricks
eHow
Allure
I've shown a lot of great shadow options that work with green eyes, but really, there are many more out there! I've had the best luck with eye shadows from L'Oreal, Maybelline, CoverGirl and Wet 'n Wild.
1. Liquiline Blast Eyeliner: Super pigmented, easy to work with, and I love the smudge end. Go for the brown, dark grey or purple.
2. Maybelline Expert Wear Shadow Trio in Almond Satin
3. Maybelline Expert Wear Shadow Duo in Sunkissed Olive
4. L'Oreal Colour Riche Shadow Quads in Because I'm Worth It
5. CoverGirl Eye Enhancers 1-Kit Shadows in Tapestry Taupe
6. Maybelline Expert Wear Trios in Impeccable Greys
2. CoverGirl LipPerfection Jumbo Gloss Balm: This pencil balm comes in a lot of different colors but they're all soft, pretty and hydrating. It's a little more color than #1.
3. Maybelline Color Whisper: I think about the same pigmentation level as #2, though it depends on the shade. I think the key is finding a color that offers a little more color than your natural lips but is still translucent.
Did I miss anything? Let me know what other products would be worth recommending to Karen!
I've enlisted some friends to make their own inexpensive makeup kit as well. There will be a new one each day!
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I have to say I HATE that Dream Bouncy Blush. I bought some when I was stranded out of town without my makeup and I found the application challenging and the effect underwhelming.
ReplyDeleteGreat recommendations! I definitely enjoy ELF products.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of eyelash curler did you upgrade to? I love your list! I'm going to share it with my teen daughter :-)
ReplyDeleteI'm so jealous someone asked you this! I am also obsessed with being everyone's first makeup advice! LOL. I second your recommendation of Tapestry Taupe. It is one of the best shades ever! I also absolutely HATE the ELF eyelash curler, with a fiery passion. I saw it recommended by quite a few beauty bloggers so I picked it up. Hate.
ReplyDeleteWOW I cannot believe the price difference to makeup here in Australia Loreal is so expensive I would say that concealer would be nearly $20 and also the Maybelline eyeshades are over $10.
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I would recommend the Maybelline Color Tattoo in Bad to the Bronze for a quick eye look that can be applied with fingers. If you have unruly eyebrows, they can be carefully trimmed with a tiny pair of scissors (I have some from Tweezerman). And definitely keep an eye out for sales and coupons!
ReplyDeleteKEEP all your receipts and clip coupons! The stores Karen listed all have good return policies and many have great coupons! So if something doesn't work, you can return it.
ReplyDeleteMy product suggestions:
Maybelline Full n Soft Mascara in Black: this is a good starter mascara bc lashes won't feel crunchy with this--it will FEEL soft to the touch and hence, comfortable to wear for first-time users. Holds curl, natural volume and won't flake.
Eyeliners for Hooded Eyes that won't smudge:
-Rimmel Scandaleyes Waterproof Gel Liner
-L'Oreal Infallible Lacquer Gel Liner
-Revlon Colorstay Pencil Liner: (twist-up pencil--this will fade but won't smudge all-over so I just reapply later in the day)
-Kat Von D Tattoo Liner (liquid)
-Milani Ultra-fine Liquid Liner
Eyeliner tips:
1. Applying liner on top of eyeshadow primer might help liner last longer. The NYX shadow base won't do it for me. Urban Decay Primer Potion works best on me (but I can't use it since I'm allergic). Milani primer, I hear, is very good.
2. Setting cream/gel/pencil liner with powder eyeshadow in a matching color might help it last longer too. I like L'Oreal Infallible Eyeshadow for this bc there is no fall-out if I remember to tap off the brush.
3. A fine-tipped black liquid liner is excellent for hooded eyes bc the right formula won't budge once it dries and sets but the downside is that it's so easy to overdo. DON'T draw thick lines and DON'T wing out the liner (too retro housewife-looking: people WILL shudder in horror). DO draw on the liner as thin as possible on the lash line to look naturally defined. Use a bunch of tiny small strokes--there's no need to line the entire eye in one stroke. My friends with blue or green eyes do this and when done right, it just looks like they have thick lashes.
If I ever get my act together to write for you on this, my first suggestion is to join the CVS reward club and the beauty club. You get better prices and money back towards more shopping trips.
ReplyDeleteI love your post. I cannot wait for my niece to become a teenager so that I can buy her first makeup products for her!
ReplyDeleteI really do not like the BB Cream from Maybellne, it creates a cake finish on your skin…Beware!
ReplyDeleteReally? That's totally different than the experience I had! It is a bit more coverage that other BB Creams out there, but it went on very smoothly for me and lasted all day.
ReplyDeleteHi! Thi is my first time on your blog, entering from pinterest. I absolutley love it! I saw your starter makeup kit for "Karen" and I was hoping you could do the same for me.
ReplyDeleteI am 11 and I will be allowed to wear makeup at 13, and my mom is the kind of person who dosen't wear makeup and knows ABSOLUTLEY NOTHING about it. But, I do have this super awesome aunt that kis a makeup GENIUS! , but she lives in far away from me. And my friends are all tomboys, and think makeup is out of the question. So, I was hoping if you could be my aunt substitute.
I have light Brown hair, blue eyes, and I love makeup and want to get started. Will you help me find some good products?
Hi Anna! We can definitely work on a makeup kit together for you! Send me an email (cemikese at yahoo.com) about 6-8 weeks before your 13th birthday and we can figure it out. I don't want to do it too earlier, there are sure to be some amazing new products before then, but I know I'll have more questions. :D
ReplyDeleteI'm afraid that's a long time from now, are you sure you'll remember me? We can do it now I asked my mom and she is totally fine w/ making it now and of course I might revise it, but I wanted to know if you were fine w doing it now. Thanks!, Anna
ReplyDeleteYes, I'll remember! If you want to make it now we can do that, but if you're going to be buying a year from now there just might be some options that aren't available any more or there could be some great new products. It is totally up to you! Just send me an email whenever you want to do it. :D I'll make you a big post like this one.
ReplyDeleteHi my name is Madison and I am 13. I have tons of makeup and love creating new looks but I would like to stick to one natural beauty look that I can wear to school and when I go out. I've tried a few things but I thought I might as we'll get your opinion anyway! Thanks for any help you can give.
ReplyDeleteI would need more info, but I usually suggest a light coverage BB cream (that Maybelline one is great, they make a version for acne too), concealer only as needed, a cream blush (Maybelline Dream Bouncy) and tinted lip balm. To add in your eyes you can do just the super bare basics (concealer on the lids, then mascara) adding in a neutral shadow all over as a wash and lightly lining your eyes with brown liner right at the lash line. Hope that helps!
ReplyDeleteHi so I just read this and I thought it was great except for the BB cream...I'm 15 and I have oily skin and no matter how hard I try I can't reduce the oilyness that occurs throughout the day. Do you have any other suggestions on a product(preferably a foundation) that lasts all day and doesn't make my skin more oily? Thank you SO much! :)
ReplyDeleteI thought I had written a post about this, but can't find it! Obviously I need to readdress this. Expect a post soon, but in the meantime try a mattifying primer!
ReplyDeleteHi! My name is Luisa, and I am 14. I saw your post about "Karen's" first makeup kit. I was wondering if you could make one for me, too? I play high school soccer every day, so all the makeup I wear has to be sweat proof. I have medium brown hair, green eyes and pale skin with freckles, and unfortunately terrible genetic super dark circles. I am looking for a good go to everyday makeup look that won't sweat off. I wear mascara. I don't have any idea how to apply makeup except for mascara and my mom doesn't wear any makeup. I live near a CVS, a Target, an Ulta, and a Sephora. I also have a $75 dollar limit. I do have a few brushes and eyeshadows but I'm not sure how to wear them. One of my main concerns is my dark circles. Also, since I am pale, I sunburn super fast. Thank you so much for reading my letter, and please help!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Luisa 😀
Hey I'm 11 and a half. I am going to middle school. I have a 250$ budget. I know nothing more about makeup other than what the products are and what the are used for and that's about it. My mom only uses concealer once in a while and my dad wants to help me but has no clue either. I own no makeup products and have access to target, cvs, Walgreens, rite aid, and other makeup stores. I have brown eyes and black hair. I'm medium brown in skin tone. I want something that doesn't look too try hard but looks pretty. Can you help? Please and thanks in advance!!
ReplyDeleteHi my name is Bet! I am turning 13 this August (14th) I love makeup however like many others that have commented my mom knows NOTHING about makeup. She doesn't really want me to wear makeup but I think if I show her products that are appropriate for a young teen like me she might be more open to it. I definitely want natural makeup I don't want to look like I'm trying to hard because I'm entering 8th grade this year and really want to change things up a bit, but not too much wear it looks like I'm trying to be 20 something. I get a weekly allowance, I an't afford a lot of products because my mom wants me to spend my own money on things that I want. Do you have any suggestions for me?
ReplyDeleteI have dark brown short curly hair, dark brown skin w/ yellow undertones, chubby oval/heart shaped face, dark brown eyes, and extremely short but curled eyelashes, my eyes are also fairly small.
Hi Bet,
ReplyDeleteI'm writing a large weekly series now about Teen Beauty, it's already started! All of my recommendations will be in that series.
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